Words can say a lot. They mean something when they are said or written. The difference is that your partner can take those written words around with them forever and re-read them exactly as they are written.
You will find that many older people still have a special note or picture that they still carry around with them after many years of being with someone. It means something special. It’s something to look at.
Plus writing how you feel is a lot different than saying how you feel. When you write you can be exact with what you are saying and correct any errors that you made. You don’t have to say “I didn’t mean that!” or “That’s not how I meant it!”
Assignment: Write out a love letter saying why you are thankful for them today or what they mean to you or how grateful you are for last night. Whatever you compose ensure it could possibly be something that they will bear with them until the point when they are more established.
Compose a Letter of Things You Want to Tell Your Partner But Can`t
A few things are difficult to state. Many people have a hard time telling their partner that they love them, while others have a hard time telling them just what is bothering them. Whatever it is – it should be said.
Assignment: Think of something that you SHOULD tell your partner, something good, and write it out to them.
Give Each other Pet Names and Use Them
If you haven’t already done this then do it! Pet names are a special right for lovers! No one else can call you lover, bunny, sweetie, honey or anything else with the same meaning that they can. In addition, pet names help you to remember the bond that you have when the name is said to you. They can lift you up and improve you feel following a prolonged day at work.
Assignment: If you don’t have a pet name for your partner then makeup one that feels comfortable to you. Once you have a pet name use it. Use it to address them whenever you can appreciate the bond that comes from it.
Remember That Your Words Can Hurt or Repair
Always watch what you say to your partner. Your words have the power to hurt them deeply or repair their soul. You choose what you say and how you affect them.
It can be easy to get caught up in your ego during a discussion or argument and say something you regret, but you may sometimes just be in a bad mood and allow some hurtful words to come out. Or you may say something that you KNOW will hurt them in some way.
Be aware of how you speak to your partner. If you think it may hurt them then and do them no good then don’t say it, and if you need them to hear something then say it in the nicest way possible.
Try to uplift your partner when they need it as well instead of turning back to whatever task you were doing. For example, suppose by chance that they reveal to you that they are not feeling great amid your most loved TV show then take a moment to ask them for what reason they not resting easy and let them know you give it a second thought.
Assignment: Follow the brilliant administer today. by chance, you don't have anything pleasant to state at that point don't state anything by any means. What's more, on the off chance that you see a chance to inspire your partner today at that point do it!
Create a Love Letter Describing them with the Alphabet
This may sound like something straight out of elementary school but all of the ideas can’t be ‘grown up’ ideas. Some of the best and most memorable things come from acting like a kid.
Go from A to Z and describe them the best you can with each letter. Lovable, Bombshell, Courageous etc...You will get a giggle from them and they will appreciate it also. In addition, you will find better approaches for taking a gander at them that you never thought of.
Assignment: Describe your accomplice from beginning to end. You can write it down or make a game out of it with your partner and take turns.
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