Any Good Relationship Starts with Self…
Who wouldn’t want to keep their man in bliss while
maintaining that strong, stomach-tingling bond inside and outside of the
bedroom? We all do, of course!! If you want to keep your man and keep
him happy then you must give him plenty of good reasons to stay
1.
Love Yourself. If your own cup
isn’t full of love, how can you successfully pour love into the cup of another?
It is literally impossible to properly love and care for someone else when you
do not love and care for yourself first. If you are seeking a mate to feel good
about yourself or think a mate will help “fix” some aspect of your life, stop
right now. Learn the real meaning of self-love and develop a strong
relationship with YOU before seeking out a mate. However, if you are already in
a relationship, it is never too late to begin this process. Your relationship
will improve dramatically, trust me.
2.
Keep Evolving. Of course you want
to remain the beautiful woman he fell in love with but you don’t want to become
boring. Expand who you are. Learn new things, try new things, and enhance the
person that you are now. Your stock should be forever on the incline, honey.
When you evolve and become an even greater version of yourself, he can fall in
love with you over and over and over again.
3.
Let Go of Your Emotional Baggage.
We all have pain from our childhood or past relationships but how can we expect
to ever be successful with our men if we are putting the bullshit of another
man onto their shoulders? That’s not fair. It is not his responsibility to fix
what someone else did to you. If your father walked out on your mother, it
doesn’t mean that John will and if Tim was a cheater, it doesn’t mean that
Michael will be. You see what I am saying? Let the past be the past and let it
go.
4.
Pay Attention to Your Looks. I am
not saying you have to be Halle Berry but please, take pride in your
appearance! In the beginning of your relationship, I am sure you always made
sure you were looking “hot fire” because you valued his opinion of you and
wanted his desire. Do you no longer want his affection and desire? Heck yes you
do therefore beautifying for your man should never stop. Often men complain
about their wives gaining a lot of weight or “never dressing up for him anymore”.
I know that with age, childbirth, health issues, and the lack of time may cause
our bodies to get out of shape but we can’t use these as excuses anymore. Never
become so comfortable with your mate or complacent enough that you begin to
neglect your beauty.
5.
Maintain a Flattering Wardrobe.
He doesn’t want to come home to a woman dressed in a sweat suit and head scarf all
of the time! Let him come home to a woman in some booty-hugging jeans, cute
top, and heels that’s excited to see him. What man wouldn’t want to come home
to that?
6.
Throw Away Those PJ’s. If you
have those thick, unflattering flannel pajamas or oversized t-shirts then toss
them out right now! Instead sleep in sexy nighties, lingerie, or perhaps sleep
in nothing at all.
7.
Get Domestic. Every woman should
know how to cook, clean, do laundry, iron, etc., and all of the things required
to take care of home. Of course a man is always welcome to assist around the
house, but you should know how to perform those domestic duties required
in maintaining a clean and high-functioning household.8
8.
Know Your Body. If you are
unaware of what excites and pleases your body, it will prove to be a very
difficult task when trying to show your mate how to excite and please your
body. If you don’t know; you can’t show. But I digress…
9.
Sexual Confidence. Most men do
not want to make love to a woman that is unsure of herself sexually. They want
a vixen in the bedroom that loves sex and knows what the hell she is doing!
There is so much information out here to help you become a sex goddess. Even if
you’ve already been labeled “good in bed”, there is always more to learn.
Always.
10. Study Him. Did you know that the male brain has a harder time processing
the female voice versus the male voice? It’s a scientific fact that it is not
his fault sometimes when he doesn’t hear you! We should know this kind of stuff
along with other things like how men think, how to interpret their body
language, why they call it a ‘fight’ when we call it a ‘disagreement’, all of
that. This is not hard for a woman since our brains were so beautifully
designed to absorb information found in his facial expressions, body language,
and words all at once. With this knowledge, you will know what to say and do to
your man to get any result you desire. Use this magic for good and not evil.
All of this plus the tips in the rest of this book and you have one hot
relationship!
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