1. Flirt. Flirting with your mate is a playful way of letting him know you are still attracted to him. It’s also a great ego booster for him! He won’t care about other women flirting with him when he is getting all of the attention he needs at home.
2. Shut Up Sometimes. ‘Nuf said.
3. Learn How to Maintain Independence without Neglecting Him. You never want to make a man your entire life; even he will eventually become bored with you. Live your life joyfully and continue achieving the goals you have set for yourself while still making that quality time to tend to your relationship.
4. Let a Man Be a Man. This is very simple. We do not always have to be in charge and “run things” all of the time. Insecurity is usually the underlining problem when a woman is trying to control the relationship and she doesn’t even realize that she is doing more harm than good. Trust me, it will be okay if you learned to relax and relinquish some of the control.
5. Relaxing Massages. This is a wonderful and sensual way to spend time with your partner connecting, caressing, and releasing tension. Incorporate it into your relationship.
6. Keep Your Relationship Business Within the Relationship. I understand that we need to vent to our girlfriends sometimes but some things need to stay between you and your man only. Remember when Kevin Hart had to sit at the dinner table with the “I Eat Ass” face? That’s because this woman was running her mouth about things she shouldn’t. Even though I used this hilarious example, respecting the privacy of your relationship is a serious matter. It can lead to major issues if you share a private matter and your man finds out.
7. Be Adventurous. Do not be afraid to try new things with your mate and have fun. If he wants to learn to ride dirt bikes and wants you to come along, then by all means! Or we can take that example down about ten notches and say to learn to Chicago Step even though you’re known for having two left feet. Now that would be adventurous…
8. Up Your Libido (if necessary). In my career, studies, and own life, I have found that the more you have sex, the more regularly you desire sex as long as there is nothing medically wrong to cause a low sex drive. If you need to up your libido, try natural ways to increase it with herbs or foods like oysters and avocados. Feel free to seek information through LoversEd on ways to increase your libido or the plethora of information found in books and online.
9. Erotic Dialogue and Phone Sex. Call your man while he is out or at work and tell him in very explicit detail what you want to do to him and his penis when he gets home. Men are visual so use words that will paint a vivid picture in his mind. Also during intercourse, do not be afraid to let your naughty side come out and yell “Oh yes! Hit that spot baby!” (We are all adults here but if that sentence offended you, you may not want to go any further…its get worse.)
10. Leave Your Stilettos On. Make love to your man in nothing but your sexiest stilettos. This is visually enticing but make sure you are careful with your shoes because you do not want to accidentally jab him. Ouch!
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