Talk about Your Life Together Since You Met
In a committed relationship, your life is deeply entangled. Most likely you spend at the very least 50% or more of your time together. That’s a huge chunk of your life!
Reflecting on your time together will bring you closer by default. You will feel more like a team in life and you will be more aware of what your partner really does for you, and with you, in your life. Once you realize that you are a team you will start to act more like a team in life.
One thing to concentrate on would be new things that you've encountered together like purchasing your first house or going on your first get-away to Maui. These are encounters in life that you have shared together and that is energizing.
Task: Reflect on the great minutes in your coexistence. In the event that you might want to concentrate on the terrible minutes that you have shared – like a demise or another misfortune – that is alright as well. The fact of the matter is you are examining your coexistence and the snags you've overcome or that euphoria that you've shared.
Weigh Your Week as a Couple – and Improve
I first read about this in Jack Canfield's – The Success Principles. He mentions how he asks his wife to rate him 1 out of 10 for the week and then give him reasons why she gave that answer. This is a great idea!
Not exclusively will you turn out to be more mindful of how your activities and words influence your partner yet you will include another level of correspondence into your relationship that most couples don't have.
Relatively few individuals can speak the truth about what they might want to change in their partner. What's more, relatively few individuals can take the feedback that their partner gives them. On the off chance that you can figure out how to do both on a level that doesn't include outrage and hurt then you will be headed to an astonishing relationship.
Task: Sit down at sleep time and approach your partner for a legitimate rating on a size of 1 to 10.Let him or she explain why they have given you this rating and listen completely. Then promise to work no those areas that bothered him or her so that you can receive a better score next time. Then switch roles. Keep in mind keep your sense of self and pride out of it and simply concentrate on having a superior relationship. This method can truly enable your relationship to improve on the chance that you are straightforward and open.
No comments
Post a Comment